About us
Come as you are. Explore who you're becoming.
Wildly Herself is a women's community built around something surprisingly simple:
Actually living authentically, fully as your wild self.
Making new friends. Trying new things. Laughing until your stomach hurts. Having conversations that go beyond small talk. Exploring Charlottesville and beyond. Challenging yourself occasionally. Being ridiculous occasionally. And having somewhere you don't need to show up with everything figured out.
Our gatherings might include hiking, dinners, bonfires, creative nights, kayaking, dancing, rock climbing, horses, workshops, coffee, games, community service, local adventures or simply sitting together having the kind of conversation we don't make enough room for.
Some experiences are purely for fun.
Others explore things like self-trust, confidence, boundaries, relationships, communication, identity, purpose and creating a life that feels more like your own.
There is no requirement to be fearless, extroverted, "healed," successful or endlessly positive.
Just come curious to this women ONLY group. All men who join will be removed.
CONNECT • PLAY • EXPLORE • EXPAND
Come as you are. Explore who you're becoming.
Wildly Herself is a Playful Pivot community founded by confidence coach Elysia Buss.
Other than this being a women's only group, this group is inclusive of different races, the LGBTQ+ community, cultures, religions, politics, etc. No shaming, or disrespect is permitted in the group. We're here to have fun, have healthy boundaries and be human together regardless of our background. Anyone who is disrespectful will be removed in order to maintain a safe and inclusive environment.
Upcoming events
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Salsa and Bachata Dance Night at Hazy Mountain Vineyards!
Hazy Mountain Vineyards & Brewery, 240 Hazy Mountain Ln, Afton, VA 22920, USA, Afton, VA, USWildly Herself | Movement, Music & Connection
Ladies, when was the last time you let loose, moved your body, laughed with friends, and danced simply for the joy of it?Life isn't meant to be all responsibilities and routines. Sometimes the most empowering thing we can do is give ourselves permission to play, be a little adventurous, and enjoy being alive!
That's what Wildly Herself is all about!
Join us for Bachata Night at Hazy Mountain Vineyards, where we'll enjoy an evening of music, dancing, laughter, and connection in a beautiful setting.Never danced bachata before? Perfect! There's a lesson to get you started. Already love dancing? Come show us your moves!
No experience or dance partner necessary. Come solo, bring a friend, or make some new ones on the dance floor!
### What to Expect
- Bachata Lessons: Learn some new moves from 5:00 to 6:00 PM.
- Music & Dancing: Enjoy the rhythm and dance the evening away.
- Beautiful Surroundings: Experience the atmosphere at Hazy Mountain Vineyards.
- Wonderful Company: Connect with women who enjoy trying new things, laughing, and living fully.
### Event Details
Friday, November 27, 2026
5:00 to 9:00 PM
Dance lessons: 5:00 to 6:00 PM
Hazy Mountain Vineyards
Afton, Virginia### Tickets & RSVP
Purchase your tickets directly through Hazy Mountain Vineyards:
https://www.hazy-mountain.com/product#/bachata-night-112726
Please also RSVP here on Wildly Herself once you've purchased your ticket! This helps us get an accurate head count and know who's joining us.
A Meetup RSVP does not include admission or reserve your ticket.### Come as You Are. Explore Who You're Becoming.
You don't have to be a great dancer. You don't have to know anyone. You don't even have to know what you're doing!
Just bring your curiosity, your playful spirit, and a willingness to step outside your comfort zone.
Because sometimes finding your rhythm in life starts with finding it on the dance floor.
Let's dance, laugh, connect, and make some wonderful memories together!6 attendees
Past events
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