About us
Are you in your 20s/30s and wondering how to make friends as an adult? Did you just move to Richmond, VA (RVA) and need new friends or things to do? Have you lived in RVA for a while but still would like to diversify your circle of friends? Are you single, engaged, married, or divorced and looking to meet other like-minded friends? Do you like food, beer, wine, cooking classes, games, outdoor activities, music, or anything fun and would rather go with friends?
If you answered yes to any of those questions, this group is for you! Trying to Adult RVA is a membership-based social group. It is open to anyone 21+, of any gender, that want to make friends.
Please ensure you review our rules and policies. We have participation, attendance, return/refund, and social media rules.
Please visit our FAQ page for common questions about our events, membership, tickets, and more!
Please visit our website for more information about Trying to Adult RVA.
Upcoming events
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Dinner at Neighbor
Neighbor, 4023 MacArthur Ave, Richmond, VA, USJoin us for an intimate dinner at Neighbor, one of RVA’s coziest spots for thoughtful, seasonal food and warm hospitality. Their menu is known for beautifully plated dishes, fresh ingredients, and flavors that feel both elevated and comforting. Think vibrant vegetables, perfectly prepared proteins, creative small plates, and desserts you’ll want to split “just to try a bite” and then finish anyway.
There’s something about sharing a table that makes conversations flow easier and strangers feel like friends.
This dinner is designed for connection. You’ll be seated in a small group so it’s easy to talk, laugh, and actually get to know the people across from you. Whether you come solo or bring a friend, you’ll leave feeling full in more ways than one.
Spots are limited to keep the vibe cozy and conversational. Grab your seat and come break bread with new friends.
This is a Special Event. All Trying to Adult RVA events require tickets or access passes, available exclusively through the Trying to Adult RVA website. Members can unlock free or discounted access passes depending on their membership tier. Non-members are welcome to join by purchasing an individual access pass.
Spots must be claimed in advance, and you must have a ticket from the Trying to Adult RVA website to secure your place. RSVPing on any other platform does not guarantee your spot.
You can claim your spot here.
Parking: street parking in the immediate area and some nearby lots.
5 attendees
St. Patrick’s Day at Patrick Henry's Pub & Grille
Patrick Henry's Pub & Grille, 2300 East Broad Street, Richmond, VA, USPut on your green and come celebrate St. Patrick’s Day the right way.
We’re heading to Patrick Henry’s Pub & Grille for a night of beers, comfort food, and easy conversation. It’s the kind of spot that feels festive without being overwhelming. Classic pub energy, good pours, and plenty of space to settle in and hang out.
We’ll grab tables, order drinks, share apps, and let the night unfold naturally. Whether you’re craving something hearty or just want to toast with a cold beer, you’ll be in good company.
Wear green. Bring your appetite. Leave with new connections!
This is a Special Event. All Trying to Adult RVA events require tickets or access passes, available exclusively through the Trying to Adult RVA website. Members can unlock free or discounted access passes depending on their membership tier. Non-members are welcome to join by purchasing an individual access pass.
Spots must be claimed in advance, and you must have a ticket from the Trying to Adult RVA website to secure your place. RSVPing on any other platform does not guarantee your spot.
You can claim your spot here.
Parking: street parking in the area and nearby neighborhoods.
16 attendees
Richmond Kickers Opening Night Game
Richmond City Stadium, 3201 Maplewood Ave, Richmond, VA, USJoin us for Opening Night as Richmond Kickers take on Florida’s FC Naples in the season kickoff you do not want to miss.
We’re heading to the stadium as a group to cheer on RVA, enjoy the game day vibes, and kick off the season right. Every attendee joining with our group will receive a Kickers branded hat, so you’ll be repping Richmond in style.
Wear red, bring the energy, and get ready for a fun night of soccer, food trucks, drinks, and community. Whether you’re a big soccer fan or just looking for a lively night out with good people, this is an easy, fun way to spend the evening.
The game starts at 6:00 PM, but feel free to come early to grab food, explore the stadium, and mingle with new friends before kickoff. We’ll be hanging out, soaking up the energy, and getting settled together.
This is a Premium Event. Tickets for this event are $20 for premium members and $25 for all other members. Space is limited to 25 people. Spots must be claimed in advance, and you must have a ticket from the Trying to Adult RVA website to secure your place. RSVPing on any other platform does not guarantee your spot.
You can claim your ticket here.
Parking: there are large parking lots! Follow instructions from parking staff and plan for game day traffic.
4 attendees
Movie Club
Bar West, 5811 Grove Ave, Richmond, VA, USWe welcome you to join us for our monthly Movie Club get-togethers. We will select one film each month and ask that you watch the movie beforehand so we can dive into thoughtful discussion together. Be prepared for spoilers!
Our movie this month is “Hamnet” directed by Chloe Zhao.
🗓 Date: March 22nd
🕕 Time: 1:00 PM
📍 Location: Bar West“Hamnet” is a 2025 film by Chloe Zhao based on Maggie O'Farrell’s acclaimed novel, Hamnet (2025), an emotional historical drama exploring the life of William Shakespeare and his wife, Agnes (Jessie Buckley), in 16th-century England.
We’ll gather to talk about the film’s themes, visuals, and big ideas, and choose next month’s movie at the end of our meeting—so come prepared with your own film suggestions!
🎬 “Hamnet” is available to watch in theaters, to stream on Peacock, or rent on major platforms (including Prime and YouTube). You don’t need to bring anything but your thoughts, questions, and excitement.
This is a Classic Event. All Trying to Adult RVA events require tickets or access passes, which can be secured through the Trying to Adult RVA website. Members can unlock free or discounted access passes depending on their membership tier. Non-members are welcome to join by purchasing an individual access pass. Spots must be claimed in advance, and you must have a ticket from the Trying to Adult RVA website to secure your place. RSVPing on any other platform does not guarantee your spot.
You can claim your spot here.
Parking: mostly street parking in this area.
6 attendees
Past events
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