What we’re about
Are you in your 20s/30s and wondering how to make friends as an adult? Did you just move to Richmond, VA (RVA) and need new friends or things to do? Have you lived in RVA for a while but still would like to diversify your circle of friends? Are you single, engaged, married, or divorced and looking to meet other like-minded friends? Do you like food, beer, wine, cooking classes, games, outdoor activities, music, or anything fun and would rather go with friends?
If you answered yes to any of those questions, this group is for you! Trying to Adult RVA is a membership-based social group. It is open to anyone 21+, of any gender, that want to make friends.
Please ensure you review our rules and policies. We have participation, attendance, return/refund, and social media rules.
Please visit our FAQ page for common questions about our events, membership, tickets, and more!
Please visit our website for more information about Trying to Adult RVA.
Upcoming events
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Karaoke at Casa Grande
Casa Grande, 7818 W Broad St, Richmond, VA, USWarm up those vocal cords and get ready for a fun, low pressure night at Karaoke at Casa Grande 🎤
This is all about having a good time, not sounding perfect. Come make new friends, grab some food and drinks, and take turns singing your favorite songs. Whether you’re belting out a classic, cheering from the table, or discovering your new go to karaoke anthem, you’ll fit right in.
Casa Grande gives us the perfect vibe for a casual, social night. Order dinner or snacks, enjoy a drink, and bond over shared laughs, surprise performances, and lots of cheering. You can sing solo, grab a duet partner, or just come to hang out and support others.
No pressure, no judgment, just good energy, new connections, and a whole lot of fun. Come as you are and leave with new friends and a few songs stuck in your head.
This is a Classic Event. All Trying to Adult RVA events require tickets or access passes, which can be secured through the Trying to Adult RVA website. Members can unlock free or discounted access passes depending on their membership tier. Non-members are welcome to join by purchasing an individual access pass. Spots must be claimed in advance, and you must have a ticket from the Trying to Adult RVA website to secure your place. RSVPing on any other platform does not guarantee your spot.
You can claim your spot here.
Parking: there is a parking lot!7 attendees
Bowling at River City Roll
River City Roll, 939 Myers St, Richmond, VA, USGet ready to lace up (or velcro lol) those bowling shoes because we’re heading to River City Roll for a night of fun, laughs, and competition. Whether you’re surprisingly good or just here for the vibes, this is a super easy way to hang out, meet new people, and knock down a few pins. No pressure, no experience needed, just a really fun night of bowling and connection.
Tickets for this event are $20 for premium members and $25 for all other members. Space is limited to 18 people. Spots must be claimed in advance, and you must have a ticket from the Trying to Adult RVA website to secure your place. RSVPing on any other platform does not guarantee your spot.
You can claim your ticket here.
Parking: There is a parking lot on site.
Please note: you must rent ($4.50) or bring your own bowling shoes.13 attendees
Movie Club
Bar West, 5811 Grove Ave, Richmond, VA, USWe welcome you to join us for our monthly Movie Club get-togethers. We will select one film each month and ask that you watch the movie beforehand so we can dive into thoughtful discussion together. Be prepared for spoilers!
Our movie this month is “The Social Network” directed by David Fincher.
🗓 Date: January 18th
🕕 Time: 1:00 PM
📍 Location: Bar West
“The Social Network” is a 2010 film directed by David Fincher about the founding of Facebook by Mark Zuckerberg, exploring themes of ambition, betrayal, friendship, and the corrosive nature of success, told through a framing device of lawsuits from former friends and partners who felt cheated out of the company's creation.
We’ll gather to talk about the film’s themes, visuals, and big ideas, and choose next month’s movie at the end of our meeting—so come prepared with your own film suggestions!
🎬 “The Social Network” is available to stream or rent on major platforms. You don’t need to bring anything but your thoughts, questions, and excitement.
This is a Classic Event. All Trying to Adult RVA events require tickets or access passes, which can be secured through the Trying to Adult RVA website. Members can unlock free or discounted access passes depending on their membership tier. Non-members are welcome to join by purchasing an individual access pass. Spots must be claimed in advance, and you must have a ticket from the Trying to Adult RVA website to secure your place. RSVPing on any other platform does not guarantee your spot.
You can claim your spot here.
Parking: mostly street parking in this area.3 attendees
Cocktails & Connections at Virago
Virago Spirits, 1727 Rhoadmiller St, Richmond, VA, USStep into one of Richmond’s hidden gems for a night that blends great drinks, good vibes, and even better company. We’re heading to Virago Spirits Distillery for an evening of craft cocktails, effortless connection, and a true taste of the local spirit scene.
Sip on expertly crafted drinks featuring locally made rum and gin in a tasting room with a cozy, speakeasy inspired feel. Choose from favorites like an Espresso Rumtini, a classic House Daiquiri, or a smooth Rum Old Fashioned while mingling, chatting, and making new friends. This is the kind of night where conversations flow naturally and fun is the only agenda.
We’ll break away for a guided tour of the production space where you’ll get an inside look at how Virago’s rum is made from start to finish. Learn about the ingredients, the distillation process, and what makes local rum unique. It’s a chance to ask questions, geek out a little if you want, and walk away with a deeper appreciation for what’s in your glass.
Come explore a Richmond favorite, connect with great people, and enjoy an evening that feels social, intentional, and just plain fun.
This is a Special Event. All Trying to Adult RVA events require tickets or access passes, available exclusively through the Trying to Adult RVA website. Members can unlock free or discounted access passes depending on their membership tier. Non-members are welcome to join by purchasing an individual access pass. Spots must be claimed in advance, and you must have a ticket from the Trying to Adult RVA website to secure your place. RSVPing on any other platform does not guarantee your spot.
You can claim your spot here.
Parking: there is a parking on site, be sure to read signage! This place is a bit hidden so don't worry if it feels like you might be in the wrong place.17 attendees
Past events
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