What we’re about
Are you in your 20s/30s and wondering how to make friends as an adult? Did you just move to Richmond, VA (RVA) and need new friends or things to do? Have you lived in RVA for a while but still would like to diversify your circle of friends? Are you single, engaged, married, or divorced and looking to meet other like-minded friends? Do you like food, beer, wine, cooking classes, games, outdoor activities, music, or anything fun and would rather go with friends?
If you answered yes to any of those questions, this group is for you! Trying to Adult RVA is a membership-based social group. It is open to anyone 21+, of any gender, that want to make friends.
Please ensure you review our rules and policies. We have participation, attendance, return/refund, and social media rules.
Please visit our FAQ page for common questions about our events, membership, tickets, and more!
Please visit our website for more information about Trying to Adult RVA.
Upcoming events (4+)
See all- National Oyster Day at The BoathouseThe Boathouse at Rocketts Landing, Richmond, VA
Celebrate National Oyster Day with us at The Boathouse at Rocketts Landing, where you can enjoy $1 oysters prepared just the way you like—raw, roasted, or fried with their extended Happy Hour exclusively for our group until 6:30PM. Pair these delicious bites with stunning views of the Richmond City skyline for a truly unforgettable experience.
The Boathouse’s oysters are sourced from their private oyster bed at the mouth of the Piankatank River in the Chesapeake Bay, ensuring the freshest flavors.
This is the perfect event to meet new friends while savoring amazing food and enjoying great conversation in a laid-back setting. Whether you’re an oyster enthusiast or just looking to try something new, come join the fun on National Oyster Day!
This event is for Trying to Adult RVA members. Memberships start at $5/month and can be cancelled or paused at any time! We would love for you to join us. Space is limited to 20 people. Spots are first claimed first confirmed. All attendees must have a confirmed ticket to attend.
You can claim your spot here.
Parking: there is street parking, a small parking lot, and Valet ($) available.
- New Friend SocialRichbrau Brewing, Richmond, VA
**This event is open to members AND non-members**
Calling all newcomers to the Trying to Adult RVA community! Are you eager to meet new friends and expand your social circle? Join us for our monthly New Friend Social, an informal and friendly gathering designed exclusively for those who have attended three or fewer "Trying to Adult RVA" events.
At this exciting event, you'll be greeted with an inclusive and welcoming environment where you can connect with fellow new members who share your enthusiasm for exploring the RVA area and making new friends. Whether you've recently moved to Richmond or are simply looking to expand your social network, this is the perfect opportunity to make lasting connections and build new friendships.
Our New Friend Leads and other Trying to Adult RVA leadership team volunteers who have attended multiple Trying to Adult RVA events will also join these socials and can provide guidance on other TTA events and happenings.
Please Note: To ensure a comfortable environment for all participants, this event is exclusively for those who have attended three or fewer Trying to Adult RVA events. If you meet this criteria, we welcome you and look forward to helping you forge meaningful connections.
This is a free event, however you will need to claim a ticket in order to attend as attendance is limited. If you can no longer attend after claiming a spot, please let the event host know via a message or comment. Last minute RSVP changes are hard to fill so please change your RSVP and notify us at least 24 hours in advance. Please make sure you read the group rules. We have a policy around no-shows!
You can claim a ticket and confirm your spot here.
Parking can be a little tricky in Shockoe Bottom. There is usually street parking on Cary Street or East Main Street. Please be sure to abide by posted signage.
- Flowers & Farmers MarketFreckled Flower Farm, Montpelier, VA
Slow down and soak in the beauty of summer with an evening escape to the flower fields—just outside the city but a world away. 🌾✨
We’ll start with the highlight of the night: picking your own flowers straight from the fields. Wander through rows of blooms, build your own bouquet, and capture golden hour photos among the flowers. You can bring your own bucket or vase to keep them fresh with water, or have the farm wrap them up to take home.
After your bouquet is ready, the evening is yours to enjoy at your own pace:
🧺 Bring a lawn chair and relax with the Trying to Adult crew
🎲 Play a few yard games or just kick back with good company
🎣 Try your hand at fishing (BYO gear if you’d like!)
🛍️ Browse the Farmers Market featuring local artisans, farmers, bakers, and food trucks—every purchase goes directly to the vendors
🍽️ Bring a cooler or picnic and enjoy dinner farm-side as the sun sets💡 What to Bring:
✔ Lawn chair or picnic blanket
✔ Bucket or vase (optional) for flowers
✔ Cash or card for market vendors
✔ Fishing gear (optional)
✔ Snacks, drinks, or a picnic dinner
✔ Bug spray, just in caseThis is a slow, beautiful night on the farm with low pressure, high vibes, and plenty of ways to connect. Whether you’re coming for the flowers, the shopping, or just the chill company—we’d love to have you.
This event is for Trying to Adult RVA members. Memberships start at $5/month and can be cancelled or paused at any time! We would love for you to join us. All attendees must have a confirmed ticket to attend.
You can claim your spot here.
Parking: parking right at the farm!
- Brunch at ParlayParlay Bar & Lounge, Richmond, VA
Tacos for breakfast? Yes, please.
Join us at Parlay for a laid-back brunch where the vibes are fun and the flavors are bold. Their casual, come-as-you-are energy is perfect for kicking off your weekend with new friends and great food. The menu features everything from savory breakfast tacos and shareable breakfast pizzas to bubbly mimosas and breakfast shots that keep the conversation flowing.
Whether you're coming solo or with a friend, we'll help break the ice and make sure you're seated with other friendly faces. Soak up the sun on the patio or stay cool inside while you snack, sip, and socialize.
This event is for Trying to Adult RVA members. Memberships start at $5/month and can be cancelled or paused at any time! We would love for you to join us. Space is limited to 16 people. Spots are first claimed first confirmed. All attendees must have a confirmed ticket to attend.
You can claim your spot here.
Parking: it can be difficult to find a spot in Scott's Addition and it is mostly street parking. Please allow extra time to find a spot or use a ride share option!
