About us
These meetups are sponsored by Project Peace, an Australian not-for-profit co-founded by leaders across Europe and Australia, dedicated to creating lasting human change. The Suited Monk philosophy is Project Peace's delivery methodology.
Some of us want to be successful, some of us just want to live a happy life. Why not have both? The Suited Monk brings together the best of both worlds by integrating happiness and success. A modern philosophy for living a balanced and integrated life.
Each week, we discuss a topic from the Suited Monk philosophy. Then we explore as a group through discussion how to apply it in our own lives better.
This group is dedicated to stimulating our own self-awareness through group discussions and identifying areas to improve to master our own self-actualisation.
Please have a journal or notebook ready, you will want to take lots of notes!
Looking forward to communing with you!
Upcoming events
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Building An Authentic Relationship With Yourself
·OnlineOnlineWEEKLY ONLINE MEETUP:
Why tread your mental, emotional and internal journey alone? Come and let´s share and explore the depth of our soul´s journey back home together.In each session, we use the Suited Monk Philosophy and framework to guide us on our journey. In this week´s Meetup, we explore:
Q1. Where do you see the gap between how you present yourself to the world and who you actually are?
Q2. Why is self-improvement as a performance — doing it to look better rather than be better — ineffective, and what does that do to the gap?
Q3. Why would genuine self-inquiry be more powerful than self-improvement — what actually happens to the gap when you stop fixing and start listening?
Q4. How do you live so that your relationship with yourself stays honest and doesn't quietly drift into another performance?Gain new awareness about any changes you want to make in your life and career
Likely procedure:
- Short introduction of the topic of the day
- Sharing: people sharing personal experiences and insights related to the topic while getting feedback and insights from the group
- Identify areas for improvementWe play by three simple rules:
- Totally friendly - everyone should feel like they’re among friends and peers. Come with no expectations, and leave with new clarity for the next event.
For any questions, use the event chat on the day of the event.
We are looking forward to seeing you at our next gathering!
Who is The Suited Monk for?
The Suited Monk is a practical philosophy that serves as a compass on your life journey. The Suited Monk is for people who live in the real world, the business world, but are looking for more meaning and fulfilment on their life and career journey. It is for those who seek clarity and answers on life´s biggest questions. The Suited Monk is a community built on human values like contribution, sharing and friendship, rather than traditional religious practices. If you want to be part of a supportive community that promotes positive social values, join us and explore what our community has to offer.The solution we will look at:
In your career as a leader or manager or entrepreneur a lot of focus is built on our Suit, the money we make, our success, our status and social image and so on. But this often goes at the expense of our inner Monk, our happiness, our values and our purpose. The goal in life and The Suited Monk is to blend both worlds together into one.Basic structure of this meeting:
The meeting will be facilitated by the author and creator of the philosophy Raf Adams himself, and will involve a brief introduction for this weeks discussion. Then we will a group discussion related to the topic and discuss new insights that we can take home to keep growing our internal self. The meeting will finish with closing remarks.Venue:
Join us as we put the theme to the test in a lively online group discussion. Meeting link in description.Raf´s books can be found on Amazon:
The Suited Monk here
Suited Monk Leadership hereEvents fill up quickly. Please change your status to Not GOING if you can no longer make it. Please be respectful to those on the waiting list who want to come.
71 attendees
Radical Ownership - How to Take Back Your Personal Power
·OnlineOnlineWEEKLY ONLINE MEETUP:
Why tread your mental, emotional and internal journey alone? Come and let´s share and explore the depth of our soul´s journey back home together.In each session, we use the Suited Monk Philosophy and framework to guide us on our journey. In this week´s Meetup, we explore:
- What’s one area in your life right now where you’re still blaming others or circumstances instead of taking full ownership?
- Can you share a time when you took radical ownership of something difficult — what changed as a result?
- How does taking ownership feel empowering, and where does it sometimes feel scary or heavy?
- What’s the difference between responsibility and self-blame? How do we stay in the healthy zone?
- If you fully owned every result in your life starting tomorrow, what’s one thing you would immediately change?
Gain new awareness about any changes you want to make in your life and career
Likely procedure:
- Short introduction of the topic of the day
- Sharing: people sharing personal experiences and insights related to the topic while getting feedback and insights from the group
- Identify areas for improvementWe play by three simple rules:
- Totally friendly - everyone should feel like they’re among friends and peers. Come with no expectations, and leave with new clarity for the next event.
For any questions, use the event chat on the day of the event.
We are looking forward to seeing you at our next gathering!
Who is The Suited Monk for?
The Suited Monk is a practical philosophy that serves as a compass on your life journey. The Suited Monk is for people who live in the real world, the business world, but are looking for more meaning and fulfilment on their life and career journey. It is for those who seek clarity and answers on life´s biggest questions. The Suited Monk is a community built on human values like contribution, sharing and friendship, rather than traditional religious practices. If you want to be part of a supportive community that promotes positive social values, join us and explore what our community has to offer.The solution we will look at:
In your career as a leader or manager or entrepreneur a lot of focus is built on our Suit, the money we make, our success, our status and social image and so on. But this often goes at the expense of our inner Monk, our happiness, our values and our purpose. The goal in life and The Suited Monk is to blend both worlds together into one.Basic structure of this meeting:
The meeting will be facilitated by the author and creator of the philosophy Raf Adams himself, and will involve a brief introduction for this weeks discussion. Then we will a group discussion related to the topic and discuss new insights that we can take home to keep growing our internal self. The meeting will finish with closing remarks.Venue:
Join us as we put the theme to the test in a lively online group discussion. Meeting link in description.Raf´s books can be found on Amazon:
The Suited Monk here
Suited Monk Leadership hereEvents fill up quickly. Please change your status to Not GOING if you can no longer make it. Please be respectful to those on the waiting list who want to come.
40 attendees
Ego Is Not the Enemy: How to Turn It Into Your Ally
·OnlineOnlineWEEKLY ONLINE MEETUP:
Why tread your mental, emotional and internal journey alone? Come and let´s share and explore the depth of our soul´s journey back home together.In each session, we use the Suited Monk Philosophy and framework to guide us on our journey. In this week´s Meetup, we explore:
- What’s your personal relationship with your ego — do you see it mostly as a friend, enemy, or something in between?
- Can you share an example of when your ego helped you achieve something positive?
- When does your ego become destructive or get in your way? How do you catch it in the moment?
- How can we build a healthy ego that drives us forward without making us arrogant or fragile?
- What would it look like to have your ego fully working for you instead of against you?
Gain new awareness about any changes you want to make in your life and career
Likely procedure:
- Short introduction of the topic of the day
- Sharing: people sharing personal experiences and insights related to the topic while getting feedback and insights from the group
- Identify areas for improvementWe play by three simple rules:
- Totally friendly - everyone should feel like they’re among friends and peers. Come with no expectations, and leave with new clarity for the next event.
For any questions, use the event chat on the day of the event.
We are looking forward to seeing you at our next gathering!
Who is The Suited Monk for?
The Suited Monk is a practical philosophy that serves as a compass on your life journey. The Suited Monk is for people who live in the real world, the business world, but are looking for more meaning and fulfilment on their life and career journey. It is for those who seek clarity and answers on life´s biggest questions. The Suited Monk is a community built on human values like contribution, sharing and friendship, rather than traditional religious practices. If you want to be part of a supportive community that promotes positive social values, join us and explore what our community has to offer.The solution we will look at:
In your career as a leader or manager or entrepreneur a lot of focus is built on our Suit, the money we make, our success, our status and social image and so on. But this often goes at the expense of our inner Monk, our happiness, our values and our purpose. The goal in life and The Suited Monk is to blend both worlds together into one.Basic structure of this meeting:
The meeting will be facilitated by the author and creator of the philosophy Raf Adams himself, and will involve a brief introduction for this weeks discussion. Then we will a group discussion related to the topic and discuss new insights that we can take home to keep growing our internal self. The meeting will finish with closing remarks.Venue:
Join us as we put the theme to the test in a lively online group discussion. Meeting link in description.Raf´s books can be found on Amazon:
The Suited Monk here
Suited Monk Leadership hereEvents fill up quickly. Please change your status to Not GOING if you can no longer make it. Please be respectful to those on the waiting list who want to come.
22 attendees
Navigating Uncertainty: How to Stay Calm When Life Gets Chaotic
·OnlineOnlineWEEKLY ONLINE MEETUP:
Why tread your mental, emotional and internal journey alone? Come and let´s share and explore the depth of our soul´s journey back home together.In each session, we use the Suited Monk Philosophy and framework to guide us on our journey. In this week´s Meetup, we explore:
- What’s one big uncertainty you’re facing right now, and how is it affecting you emotionally?
- What’s your default reaction when life feels chaotic — control, anxiety, avoidance, or something else?
- Can you share a past uncertain period where everything worked out better than you expected?
- What practices or mindsets help you stay grounded and calm during uncertain times?
- How can we build “uncertainty tolerance” so that chaos no longer derails us?
Gain new awareness about any changes you want to make in your life and career
Likely procedure:
- Short introduction of the topic of the day
- Sharing: people sharing personal experiences and insights related to the topic while getting feedback and insights from the group
- Identify areas for improvementWe play by three simple rules:
- Totally friendly - everyone should feel like they’re among friends and peers. Come with no expectations, and leave with new clarity for the next event.
For any questions, use the event chat on the day of the event.
We are looking forward to seeing you at our next gathering!
Who is The Suited Monk for?
The Suited Monk is a practical philosophy that serves as a compass on your life journey. The Suited Monk is for people who live in the real world, the business world, but are looking for more meaning and fulfilment on their life and career journey. It is for those who seek clarity and answers on life´s biggest questions. The Suited Monk is a community built on human values like contribution, sharing and friendship, rather than traditional religious practices. If you want to be part of a supportive community that promotes positive social values, join us and explore what our community has to offer.The solution we will look at:
In your career as a leader or manager or entrepreneur a lot of focus is built on our Suit, the money we make, our success, our status and social image and so on. But this often goes at the expense of our inner Monk, our happiness, our values and our purpose. The goal in life and The Suited Monk is to blend both worlds together into one.Basic structure of this meeting:
The meeting will be facilitated by the author and creator of the philosophy Raf Adams himself, and will involve a brief introduction for this weeks discussion. Then we will a group discussion related to the topic and discuss new insights that we can take home to keep growing our internal self. The meeting will finish with closing remarks.Venue:
Join us as we put the theme to the test in a lively online group discussion. Meeting link in description.Raf´s books can be found on Amazon:
The Suited Monk here
Suited Monk Leadership hereEvents fill up quickly. Please change your status to Not GOING if you can no longer make it. Please be respectful to those on the waiting list who want to come.
22 attendees
Past events
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