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Welcome to That Exactly—an Adult ADHD & Neurodivergent Community built around connection, belonging, and real life.

If you've spent years feeling misunderstood, masking parts of yourself, or wondering why life seems harder than it "should," we hope you'll find something different here: a place where you don't have to explain yourself, earn your belonging, or pretend to have it all together. You get to show up exactly as you are.

This community was created to be the kind of place many of us wish we'd found sooner: a welcoming, supportive space where adults with ADHD and other neurodivergent experiences can connect, learn, laugh, grow, and be their authentic selves. Whether you're looking for accountability, practical strategies, meaningful friendships, or simply people who truly "get it," you're in the right place.

As someone who has ADHD myself and is deeply passionate about ADHD education and support, I started this community because I know how isolating life with ADHD can feel. My hope is that when you join us, you'll discover what so many of us have been missing: a community where you're met with understanding, compassion, and people who genuinely get it—whether you're celebrating a win, feeling stuck, or simply showing up as yourself.

We offer a variety of recurring virtual and in-person events, including body doubling, educational discussions, mindfulness, routine-building, productivity sessions, self-care, social events, Walk & Talks, Coffee Chats, creative activities, and community service opportunities. Whether you're here to get things done, learn more about your brain, make genuine friends, or simply spend time with people who understand, there's a place for you here.

Our community is centered around the adult ADHD experience while warmly welcoming many members who identify as AuDHD or have other neurodivergent experiences. We are proudly LGBTQ+ affirming and committed to creating a safe, compassionate community where everyone feels seen, valued, supported, and accepted—exactly as they are.

We're so glad you're here, and we can't wait to meet you.

Free Body Doubling Session

Free Body Doubling Session

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🧠✨ Note from Kat
Hi friends! I'll be hosting a few morning body doubling sessions while Meredith is away. She'll be back soon, but in the meantime, we'll keep things moving with the same focused, productive hour you've come to expect.

💼 About the Session
This is a one-hour power session using body doubling — perfect for work, school, or personal projects.

Bring that thing you've been putting off — maybe a task that needs pencil-to-paper brainstorming, finishing slides for a presentation, balancing your budget, catching up on emails, or planning out your week. It doesn't matter what it is — if it needs your focus, we'll make it happen together.

We'll start with a quick round of introductions where you share your name and your intention for the hour. For example:
"I'm Kat, and I want to organize my inbox and plan tomorrow's schedule."

Once intentions are set, we'll work independently but together — creating a calm, focused atmosphere that makes it easier to stay on task. About halfway through, we'll take a quick 2-minute stretch and reset break before jumping back into work.

Please plan to stay on camera the whole time. This helps us all stay present and connected (and keeps wandering minds and bodies to a minimum).

If you arrive after we've started, no problem! Just type your intention in the chat and jump right into your work. I'll do my best to let you back in if you get disconnected mid-session.

☕ Quick Tips
• Sign in a few minutes early — intention setting happens right at the start.
• Keep your camera on throughout the session (muted is fine).
• Bring water, coffee, or a fidget — whatever helps you stay grounded and focused.

✨ Let's keep the momentum going while Meredith's away. Looking forward to focusing with you!

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