About us
We care about making sure everyone can fully enjoy our events so we always consider accessibility when choosing venues and planning activities. That means prioritizing spots that are wheelchair accessible, have gender neutral restrooms when possible, and are reachable by public transit. We also keep group sizes manageable so connections feel comfortable and no one gets lost in the crowd. If you have a specific need or suggestion, we’re all ears just let us know and we’ll do our best to make it work because everyone deserves a fair shot at finding real connection.
The group was actually born out of real talk over coffee between friends who were all tired of swiping endlessly and meeting people who weren’t really looking for anything serious. We kept hearing the same thing from folks around town I want something real, but I don’t know where to meet those kinds of people. So we decided to create a space where intentionality comes first, where events aren’t just about mixing drinks but mixing hearts in a genuine way. Sable Flame was built on the idea that love shouldn’t feel like a game, and that shared experiences are the best way to grow real connections.
When someone finds their person or hits a big relationship milestone, we celebrate like family. Whether it’s a member announcing an engagement, moving in together, or just sharing how much they’ve grown through the group, we take time at events to give them a real shoutout sometimes with a little toast, sometimes just heartfelt applause. It’s not about attention, it’s about honoring the courage it takes to open up and the joy that comes when it leads to something beautiful. These wins inspire everyone and remind us why we keep showing up.
If you’re someone who’s done with shallow small talk and ready to meet others who are actually looking for something real, this is your crew. Sable Flame isn’t about perfection it’s about showing up as you are and being part of a community that values honesty, warmth, and real connection. We plan events that spark conversation, create laughter, and leave room for sparks to fly everything from cozy dinner gatherings to outdoor adventures. So if you’re ready to meet like minded singles who are just as serious about love as you are, come join us. Your next chapter might just start at our next event.
Upcoming events
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Durham Personality Aligned Speed Dating
2720 Suburban Dr, Charlotte, NC, US💝 Meet Local Singles Online – Speed Dating Made Easy for First Timers!
⚠️ CRITICAL: Your Spot Is NOT Confirmed by RSVPing!
Follow these steps to secure entry:
- Select your age group below
- Click the registration link
- Complete the personality quiz
Spots are extremely limited!
✅ Step 1: Find Your Age Group & Register:
- Ages 18-32 → REGISTER HERE
- Ages 30-46 → REGISTER HERE
- Ages 40-58 → REGISTER HERE
- Ages 55+ → REGISTER HERE
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🤝 Tired of swiping with no results? Try real conversations instead! Whether you've never speed dated or you've never even been on a proper date, this event is for you. Our friendly format and experienced hosts make everyone feel welcome from minute one.
🎯 Perfect for:
- Busy professionals who value their time and comfort
- First-time speed daters seeking a welcoming, easy experience
- First-timers who want a safe space to practice dating skills
Event Details
- Format: Zoom video event – interactive, personal, and welcoming
- Location: No venue needed – just a comfy seat and a good internet connection
- Host: Fun, approachable host who breaks the ice so you don't have to
- Vibe: A cozy, supportive atmosphere where Durham singles open up naturally
How It Works
- Sign Up – Click the registration link for your age bracket above.
- Do the Matching Quiz – It only takes a minute and dramatically improves your matches.
- Log In & Relax – Join the Zoom call and let the fun begin. Your host handles the logistics!
- Enjoy the Conversations – Each round is timed and guided so every chat feels natural and fun.
- Match Results – Find out who you clicked with. If the feeling is mutual, we connect you!
⭐ "The personality quiz really works. My matches were spot on!" – Happy first-timer
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✨ You deserve to meet someone amazing – and you can do it from home. We'll see you on Zoom! 🥰 ✨45 attendees
Greensboro Personality Aligned Speed Dating
6356 Brookshire Blvd, Charlotte, NC, US🫶 Online Speed Dating Night – Beginner Friendly – Greensboro Singles Welcome!
🚨 ACTION REQUIRED: RSVP Is Only Step One!
To actually attend, you need to register through your age group link below and complete the personality quiz. Spots are capped and we expect to sell out – register now!
🔗 Click Your Age Group to Register & Complete the Quiz:
- Ages 18-32 → REGISTER HERE
- Ages 30-46 → REGISTER HERE
- Ages 40-58 → REGISTER HERE
- Ages 55+ → REGISTER HERE
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🛋️ No need to dress up or go out. Speed date from your living room! This isn't your typical dating event. It's a curated, online experience where first-timers meet compatible Greensboro singles in a low-key, guided environment. No pressure – just possibilities.
🎯 Perfect for:
- First-timers wanting a low-pressure, guided experience
- Anyone who believes great chemistry starts with great conversation
- Anyone who's tired of swiping and wants real conversation
- Introverts who shine in one-on-one conversations
How It Works
- Select Your Age Range – Click the link for your age group and sign up.
- Finish the Short Personality Assessment – This helps us optimise your matches for the evening.
- Connect on Zoom – No setup needed. Just click the link and you're in!
- Speed Dating Rounds – Enjoy guided, structured conversations with friendly Greensboro singles.
- Your Results – Check your matches and take the next step with someone special.
Event Details
- Format: Online Zoom experience – intimate setting, professional hosting
- Location: From your living room, home office, or anywhere you choose
- Host: Supportive facilitator experienced in helping newcomers enjoy speed dating
- Vibe: Comfortable chats with Greensboro singles in a supportive, beginner-friendly environment
💡 Top tip: Good lighting and a tidy background go a long way on Zoom dates.
⭐ "I've told all my single friends about this. Such a fun, low-pressure way to meet people." – Repeat attendee
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✨ First-timers welcome, always. Join hundreds of Greensboro singles who found love online! 💓 ✨45 attendees
Winston-Salem Personality Aligned Speed Dating
6000 Brookshire Blvd, Charlotte, NC, US💘 Virtual Speed Dating – Ideal for First Timers – Meet Winston-Salem Singles Tonight!
🔴 IMPORTANT NOTICE: RSVP ≠ Guaranteed Entry!
You must register via your age group link below AND complete the personality quiz. This is required to participate. Limited spots – register immediately to avoid missing out!
📋 Choose Your Age Range Below to Register:
- Ages 18-32 → REGISTER HERE
- Ages 30-46 → REGISTER HERE
- Ages 40-58 → REGISTER HERE
- Ages 55+ → REGISTER HERE
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👋 First time speed dating? You'll wonder why you didn't try sooner! Think of it as the easiest first date you'll ever have – from your couch, with a host who keeps things fun, and a room full of Winston-Salem singles who are just as excited (and maybe just as nervous) as you.
🎯 Perfect for:
- First-timers who want to date without the pressure of face-to-face meetings
- Curious first-timers wanting to explore speed dating
- Anyone who's tired of swiping and wants real conversation
Event Details
- Format: Online Zoom experience – intimate setting, professional hosting
- Location: Your favourite spot at home – slippers optional, charm required
- Host: Expert moderator ensuring every conversation flows naturally
- Vibe: Comfortable chats with Winston-Salem singles in a supportive, beginner-friendly environment
- Duration: A perfectly paced 60–90 minute event with multiple rounds
- Dress code: Smart casual – look good, feel good!
- Matches: Mutual matches revealed after the event
How It Works
- Claim Your Spot – Choose your age range and complete the sign-up process.
- Do the Matching Quiz – It only takes a minute and dramatically improves your matches.
- Show Up on Zoom – Grab a drink, get comfortable, and let the host guide you through each round.
- Enjoy the Conversations – Each round is timed and guided so every chat feels natural and fun.
- Match Results – Find out who you clicked with. If the feeling is mutual, we connect you!
💡 Helpful hint: Prepare 2-3 fun questions to ask – it keeps conversations flowing naturally.
Frequently Asked Questions
Do I need to download anything?
Just Zoom! If you've used Zoom before, you're all set. We'll send you the link after registration.What if my internet drops?
No worries – our host will help you reconnect. Technical hiccups happen and we're prepared for them!What happens after the event?
We reveal mutual matches after the event. If you both liked each other, we help you connect!---
✨ Thousands of first-timers have found their match with us. You could be next! 🌹 ✨45 attendees
Raleigh Personality Aligned Speed Dating
3215 Freedom Dr, Charlotte, NC, US❤️🔥 Meet Local Singles Online – Speed Dating Made Easy for First Timers!
🚨 DON'T MISS THIS: RSVP Does Not Equal Entry!
To guarantee your spot, click the link for your age group below, register, and take the quick personality quiz. We have limited capacity – secure your place today!
📋 Choose Your Age Range Below to Register:
- Ages 18-32 → REGISTER HERE
- Ages 30-46 → REGISTER HERE
- Ages 40-58 → REGISTER HERE
- Ages 55+ → REGISTER HERE
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💬 Real conversations beat endless texting. Meet someone tonight! Forget everything you think you know about speed dating. Our online events are relaxed, guided, and perfect for anyone who's never done this before. Just log in from home and meet amazing Raleigh singles.
🎯 Perfect for:
- First-time speed daters seeking a welcoming, easy experience
- First-timers wanting a low-pressure, guided experience
- People who want to meet local Raleigh singles without leaving home
How It Works
- Pick Your Session – Select the age group that fits you and register your spot.
- Complete Your Profile Quiz – A quick questionnaire so we can find your best matches.
- Show Up on Zoom – Grab a drink, get comfortable, and let the host guide you through each round.
- Speed Dating Rounds – Enjoy guided, structured conversations with friendly Raleigh singles.
- Match Results – Find out who you clicked with. If the feeling is mutual, we connect you!
Event Details
- Format: Live on Zoom – easy to join, private, and beginner-friendly
- Location: No venue needed – just a comfy seat and a good internet connection
- Host: Expert moderator ensuring every conversation flows naturally
- Vibe: Engaging, real-time chats with Raleigh singles – no scripts, just vibes
- Matches: Mutual matches revealed after the event
- Accessibility: Join from any device – laptop, tablet, or phone
- Icebreakers: Fun prompts provided to keep conversations flowing
- Duration: Roughly 90 minutes of engaging one-on-one rounds
⭐ "The personality quiz really works. My matches were spot on!" – Happy first-timer
Frequently Asked Questions
How long are the conversations?
Each round is a few minutes – long enough to feel a connection, short enough to keep things exciting!Do I need speed dating experience?
Absolutely not! This event is designed specifically for first-timers. Our host guides you through every step.Can I attend from my phone?
Yes! Zoom works on any device, though a laptop or tablet gives the best experience.---
✨ No need to be anxious about meeting in person – find real connections from your own space! Your person is waiting! 💘 ✨45 attendees
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