About us
Our events are all about creating real connections through fun, low pressure activities. Instead of awkward icebreakers or stiff lectures, we plan things like sunset kite flying by the lake, cozy picnic meetups, and seasonal outdoor adventures. These aren't your typical speed dating nights they're relaxed social mixers where conversation flows naturally. We find that when people are doing something enjoyable together, genuine interactions happen without the usual dating stress. It's less about performing and more about just being yourself while sharing a moment with someone new.
Between events, members stay involved through our private chat community where we share event recaps, plan informal hangouts, and keep the conversations going. It's a warm, active space where people post about their week, recommend local coffee spots, or just say hi. Many connections that start at an event continue here, and sometimes little meetups pop up spontaneously like a group hike or a board game night. It's not about constant texting it's about building continuity so relationships can grow at a natural pace.
We're here for locals who are ready for something real not just another swipe or casual fling. If you're someone who values honesty, emotional maturity, and meaningful connection, you'll fit right in. We attract thoughtful professionals, creative souls, and down to earth people who still believe in love but want to find it in a setting that feels authentic. Whether you're reentering the dating world or just tired of superficial apps, this is a space where you can be intentional about who you meet and how you connect.
Safety and respect are non negotiable for us. Everyone who joins agrees to a simple code of conduct that emphasizes kindness, active listening, and personal boundaries. We vet members to ensure sincerity and moderation is built into our chat space to keep things positive. Our event hosts are trained to spot discomfort and step in if needed, and we always encourage members to trust their instincts. This isn't just a fun group it's a safe one, where everyone can feel seen and respected from the first hello.
If you're ready to meet people who are looking for the same thing you are something real, rooted in shared moments and honest conversation, then we'd love to have you. The Ichorous Fondness Kite Club isn't about flashy gimmicks or crowded bars it's about flying kites under open skies, laughing over shared snacks, and finding someone who just gets you. Come as you are, with no pressure, and see where a simple connection might lead. We're building a community of hearts ready to land in the right place and you might just belong here.
Upcoming events
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Bakersfield Character-Matched Online Speed Dating
422 N Orange Dr, Los Angeles, CA, USπ Zoom Speed Dating β Created for Newcomers β Chat with Real Bakersfield Singles!
π΄ KEY NOTICE: RSVP β Guaranteed Entry!
You must sign up via your age group link below AND finish the personality quiz. This is required to take part. Limited places β register right away to avoid missing out!
π Find Your Age Range Below to Register:
- Ages 18-32 β REGISTER HERE
- Ages 30-46 β REGISTER HERE
- Ages 40-58 β REGISTER HERE
- Ages 55+ β REGISTER HERE
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π Feeling uneasy about meeting face-to-face? Totally understandable! We've guided thousands of newcomers into discovering how fun speed dating from home can be. Quick, enjoyable conversations with compatible singles β it's simpler than you'd expect and far more rewarding than any dating app.
π― Perfect for:
- Singles who value a guided, hosted dating format
- Curious newcomers eager to give speed dating a shot
- Beginners who want to date without the stress of face-to-face encounters
- Anyone giving speed dating a go for the very first time
Event Details
- Format: Interactive Zoom meetup β feels like you're in the same room
- Location: Wherever you happen to be β no commute, no parking, no fuss
- Host: Experienced speed dating host with a knack for putting newcomers at ease
- Vibe: Comfortable chats with Bakersfield singles in a supportive, newcomer-friendly setting
How It Works
- Register β Click the sign-up link for your age bracket above.
- Complete the Quick Compatibility Quiz β Helps us match you with like-minded Bakersfield newcomers.
- Go Live β Enter the Zoom room, say hi to your host, and get ready for a brilliant night.
- Start Chatting β Short, timed conversations with compatible Bakersfield singles. No awkward pauses!
- Your Results β Check your matches and take the next step with someone special.
π‘ Insider tip: Test your Zoom setup 10 minutes early so you feel relaxed and ready to go.
β "I was doubtful about virtual speed dating, but it blew away all my expectations." β Bakersfield professional
Frequently Asked Questions
Is my information kept private?
Completely. Your contact details are never shared without mutual agreement.What happens after the event?
We share mutual matches after the event wraps up. If you both liked each other, we help you connect!What if my internet drops out?
No stress β our host will help you get reconnected. Technical hiccups happen and we're ready for them!---
β¨ Newcomers always welcome. Join hundreds of Bakersfield singles who found connection online! β¨ β¨35 attendees
Fresno Character-Matched Online Speed Dating
2392 E 49th St, Los Angeles, CA, USβ€οΈβπ₯ Zoom Speed Dating β Created for Newcomers β Chat with Real Fresno Singles!
π¨ DON'T SKIP THIS: RSVP Does Not Mean Entry!
To lock in your spot, click the link for your age group below, sign up, and complete the quick personality quiz. We have limited capacity β claim your place today!
β First Step: Choose Your Age Group & Register:
- Ages 18-32 β REGISTER HERE
- Ages 30-46 β REGISTER HERE
- Ages 40-58 β REGISTER HERE
- Ages 55+ β REGISTER HERE
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π Brand new to speed dating? You've found the perfect starting point! This isn't a standard dating event. It's a curated, online experience where newcomers meet compatible Fresno singles in a relaxed, hosted setting. No pressure β just potential.
π― Perfect for:
- Anyone giving speed dating a go for the very first time
- Remote workers who enjoy the flexibility of virtual meetups
- Singles looking for a secure, comfortable virtual environment
- People who find traditional dating nerve-wracking and want to start online
- Anyone who feels uneasy about conventional dating scenes
How It Works
- Select Your Session β Pick the age group that suits you and claim your spot.
- Complete the Matching Quiz β Takes just a minute and significantly improves your matches.
- Join the Zoom Session β Log in from home and greet your host. Weβll take care of the rest!
- Start Chatting β Short, timed conversations with compatible Fresno singles. No awkward pauses!
- Connect After the Event β Mutual matches are shared so you can keep the conversation going.
Event Details
- Format: Virtual on Zoom β organised rounds in a warm, easy-going setting
- Location: Right from your home β no need to go anywhere at all!
- Host: Your personal guide for the evening β warm, supportive, and entertaining
- Vibe: Great energy, honest talk, and genuine connections with Fresno locals
- Support: Our host is on hand before, during, and after the event
- Follow-up: Post-event match results delivered straight to your inbox
- Duration: Approximately 90 minutes of engaging one-on-one rounds
π‘ First-timer tip: Donβt overthink it β just be yourself! That's what people find most attractive.
β "I was doubtful about virtual speed dating, but it blew away all my expectations." β Fresno professional
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β¨ Connect from where youβre comfortable with friendly Fresno newcomers β no stress, just possibilities! β¨ β¨35 attendees
Sacramento Character-Matched Online Speed Dating
255 S Kingsley Dr, Los Angeles, CA, USβ¨ Speed Dating Reinvented β Virtual, Chill & Ideal for Beginners!
β οΈ PLEASE READ: Just RSVPing Won't Confirm Your Place!
To attend this event, click your age group sign-up link below, register, and complete the brief personality quiz. Capacity is strictly limited β don't wait!
π Sign Up for Your Age Group Here:
- Ages 18-32 β REGISTER HERE
- Ages 30-46 β REGISTER HERE
- Ages 40-58 β REGISTER HERE
- Ages 55+ β REGISTER HERE
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π Trying speed dating for the first time? You'll wish you'd started earlier! We created this event for people who are over the apps but aren't ready for loud mixers. It's the perfect middle ground β online, personal, hosted, and filled with genuine Sacramento singles seeking real connections.
π― Perfect for:
- Newcomers who want a relaxed, hosted experience
- Introverts who thrive in one-on-one conversations
- Anyone after a fun, organised way to meet new people
- Anyone who's done with swiping and craves genuine conversation
Event Details
- Format: Online Zoom session β intimate atmosphere, professional hosting
- Location: From your lounge, study, or anywhere else you fancy
- Host: Your personal guide for the evening β warm, supportive, and entertaining
- Vibe: A feel-good evening of laughs and connection with Sacramento newcomers
- Dress code: Smart casual β look sharp, feel great!
- Follow-up: Post-event match results delivered straight to your inbox
- Support: Our host is on hand before, during, and after the event
How It Works
- Select Your Session β Pick the age group that suits you and claim your spot.
- Complete the Matching Quiz β Takes just a minute and significantly improves your matches.
- Jump on Zoom β Your host will greet you and guide you through everything.
- Enjoy the Conversations β Every round is timed and hosted so each chat feels easy and fun.
- See Who Liked You Back β Mutual matches sent straight to your inbox. Your next chapter starts now!
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β¨ Virtual speed dating tailored for newcomers β meet local singles right from home. Come join us! π β¨35 attendees
Long Beach Character-Matched Online Speed Dating
5422 Sunset Blvd, Los Angeles, CA, USπ Zoom Speed Dating β Created for Newcomers β Chat with Real Long Beach Singles!
β οΈ RSVP β Registration!
Your Meetup RSVP on its own does not lock in a spot. You must click your age group link below, finish registration, and complete the personality quiz. Places are limited and go quickly!
β¬οΈ Choose Your Age Range & Finish Registration:
- Ages 18-32 β REGISTER HERE
- Ages 30-46 β REGISTER HERE
- Ages 40-58 β REGISTER HERE
- Ages 55+ β REGISTER HERE
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π Rather connect with people from home first? Us too! No prior experience necessary. No dating profile needed. Just real humans having real conversations. Our online setup makes it effortless for newcomers to connect with Long Beach singles in a no-pressure environment.
π― Perfect for:
- People getting back into dating after a hiatus who want a gentle re-entry
- Anyone who feels uneasy about conventional dating scenes
- Anyone who gets anxious about packed bars or in-person events
- Newcomers looking for a safe space to build dating confidence
Event Details
- Format: Online Zoom session β intimate atmosphere, professional hosting
- Location: Wherever you happen to be β no commute, no parking, no fuss
- Host: Encouraging facilitator experienced in helping first-timers enjoy speed dating
- Vibe: Great energy, honest talk, and genuine connections with Long Beach locals
- Dress code: Smart casual β look sharp, feel great!
- Follow-up: Post-event match results delivered straight to your inbox
- Accessibility: Join from any device β laptop, tablet, or mobile
- Atmosphere: Positive, inclusive, and completely judgement-free
How It Works
- Find Your Age Group β Locate your age range above and click to sign up.
- Complete the Matching Quiz β Takes just a minute and significantly improves your matches.
- Connect via Zoom β No setup required. Just click the link and youβre good to go!
- Speed Dating Rounds β Enjoy hosted, structured chats with friendly Long Beach singles.
- Get Your Matches β After the event, mutual matches are revealed. Start building a real connection!
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β¨ Virtual speed dating tailored for newcomers β meet local singles right from home. Come join us! π₯° β¨35 attendees
Past events
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