About us
Welcome to the Luxembourg/Trier Community for Intellectual & Emotional Growth.✨
This group is for people with a growth mindset.
Our goal is to create a space for connection, reflection, learning and personal growth.
Our events and activities take four different forms:
1 · Gentle Deep Conversations & Drinks
Deep talk · Reflection · Small group
A monthly Sunday gathering for meaningful conversations and reflection in a small group.
Every month · Sunday · New topic each month
2 · First Friday Social
Meet people · Connect · Have fun
A relaxed evening for 30–50 people to meet, connect and simply enjoy being together.
Every month · First Friday · 30–50 people
3 · Professional Knowledge Sessions
Ideas · Knowledge · New perspectives
A presentation or workshop exploring a new topic. My personal favorites are systemic thinking and systemic consulting.
(Community members with professional knowledge, experience, or an interesting topic are also welcome to contribute a session.)
Every two to three months
4 · 1:1 Systemic Consultation
Individual reflection · Personal development
Paid individual sessions for people who want to explore a personal or professional topic more deeply through a systemic perspective.
Learn more & request a conversation:
www.humaninsystem.com
(Community members who book through Meetup receive a special community rate.)
Monthly availability · Flexible time & location
If you are looking for real conversations, real connection, and real growth - welcome.🫶
For ongoing reflections and a gentle space online,
you can also find us on Instagram:
https://www.instagram.com/humaninsystem
Upcoming events
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Gentle Deep Conversations & Drinks: How Do We Build Our Social Circle?
Le Quai Steffen Gare de Luxembourg | Restaurant, 13 Pl. de la Gare, 1616 Gare Luxembourg, Luxembourg, LUHave you ever thought about who you choose to keep close to you?
We often hear that we become like the people we spend the most time with. But as we grow, our values, priorities, energy, and lives change too.
Some friendships grow with us.
Some slowly fade away.
And sometimes, we meet people who bring something completely new into our lives.
So how do we consciously build a social circle that feels good for us?
This meetup is for curious people who would like to explore friendship, connection, boundaries, and the people we choose to surround ourselves with.
Rather than simply labeling people as "good" or "toxic", we'll explore different behaviors, relationship dynamics, and our own experiences.
Possible topics include:- What makes someone a good friend?
- Green flags and red flags in friendships
- What does a healthy friendship feel like?
- When does a friendship become toxic?
- Boundaries, trust, reciprocity, and emotional safety
- Why do some friendships naturally fade?
- Can we outgrow people we still care about?
- How do the people around us influence who we become?
- How do we make new friends as adults?
- What kind of people do we want to have close to us?
Friendships don't always have to last forever to have been meaningful. Sometimes people grow together, sometimes they grow apart—and sometimes new connections appear exactly when we need them.
Whether you already have a strong social circle, are rebuilding one, or are simply curious about human connection, you're very welcome to join us.
Group size: 6–12 people
(If you're on the attendee list and can't make it anymore, please cancel your RSVP. If you're on the waitlist and would still like to join, just send me a message. 😊🌿)
Food & drinks: Everyone orders and pays individually.
Let's stay curious, connect, and explore together. ✨For ongoing reflections and a gentle space online,
you’re welcome to find us on Instagram:
https://www.instagram.com/humaninsystem12 attendees- €30.00

Stuck in your thoughts or emotions? Let’s talk 1:1 (Flexible October Sessions)
Location not specified yetDo you sometimes feel confused, overwhelmed, or unsure about your direction?
You may have complex thoughts or emotions, but not necessarily feel the need for therapy.
At the same time, small talk may feel too superficial. Or maybe you’ve already talked about it with friends, but somehow your thoughts keep going in circles.Sometimes, you simply want a thoughtful conversation with someone who listens carefully. :)
In this 1:1 meeting, we take time to reflect on what is currently on your mind:
relationships, life decisions, career questions, emotional situations or simply whatever feels important to you.Through a systemic, evidence-informed approach, we help you gain more clarity, discover new perspectives, or simply feel less alone.
All conversations are confidential.
Learn more & request a conversation:
www.humaninsystem.com
Community members who book through Meetup receive a special community rate:
30 min → 30€
+20€ per additional 30 min
We can decide together during the session whether you'd like to continue. :)Languages: English, Deutsch or 普通话
Time:
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Sessions are available flexibly throughout October.
(after work or weekends)
Location: café or comfortable place of your choiceWe decide together via private message.
If this resonates with you, feel free to message me. :)For ongoing reflections and a gentle space online,
you’re welcome to find us on Instagram:
https://www.instagram.com/humaninsystem4 attendees 
First Friday Social – Crazy People Outdoor Edition · Grow Together 🌱🥶
Kinnekswiss Park, 29 Av. de la Porte-Neuve, 2227 Ville-Haute Luxembourg, Luxembourg, LU# First Friday Social – Crazy People Outdoor Edition · Grow Together 🌱🥶
Meet people · Share progress · Grow together
This time, let's go beyond small talk and focus on what connects us: our growth mindset! 🌱
💬 What are you currently learning, building, or changing?
A new language? A skill? Career or business? Fitness? A healthier habit?
Big or small, nothing needs to be impressive or successful yet!
Let's share our journeys, exchange ideas, and encourage each other. ✨### 📍 Where?
Luxembourg City Park – Kinnekswiss
Meeting point: North Entrance, Rue Nicolas Adames, near the Luxembourg Red Cross. I'll be there! 😊### 🥶 Why Crazy People?
Reserving a bar for 20–30 people often means minimum spending expectations. I'd rather keep it free and pressure-free!
So… outdoors in Luxembourg, in November, in the cold and dark. What could possibly go wrong? 😂🥶
Maybe we'll spontaneously find a bar and move indoors!
Bonus: No reservation = No participant limit! 🎉### ☕ Bring along
- ☕ Your own drinks (warm ones recommended!)
- 🧣 Warm clothes — seriously!
- Feel free to bring a glow stick or a flashlight! 🔦✨ Who knows? Maybe something fun will happen. 🙈
- ☔ An umbrella if it rains — officially crazy! 😂
Coming alone? Absolutely welcome! 💙
See you there😇🌱
MengyingFor ongoing reflections and a gentle space online,
you can also find us on Instagram:
https://www.instagram.com/humaninsystem13 attendees
Past events
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