About us
We’re happy you’re here 💛
### 🌟 About the Group
I created this group for active, open, polite, and sociable people who genuinely enjoy meeting new people and spending time together.
We’re true extroverts! ✨
We love dining in beautiful places, having meaningful conversations, watching movies, playing games, and organizing fun outdoor activities together.
Our goal is to build a warm, respectful, and engaging community where people come not just for events, but for connection.
### 🤝 Our Team
The group is co-hosted by VAS, who helps keep everything running smoothly and the community active when I’m not in the Bay Area.
We also have regular event hosts, such as John and Asterios, who lead some of our recurring events and contribute to the continuity, atmosphere, and quality of the group.
We’re truly grateful for the time, energy, and care our hosts put into creating meaningful experiences for the community 🙌
### 🌿 Our Main Rule
Please treat all group members and organizers with respect — at events, in chats, and in comments.
We aim to maintain an open, friendly, and supportive environment where everyone feels comfortable and welcome.
### 💛 About Contributions
The group is free to join.
To support our activities — cover Meetup, Zoom, and other organizational costs — and to make it possible to host diverse, high-quality events, we organize sometimes paid events.
Prices are symbolic and usually range from $2–$10.
We also gratefully accept donations, which help us grow and create even better experiences for the community 🤗
### 🍽️ About Our Group Dinners
Some of our events, especially group dinners, require restaurant reservations and fixed seating.
To stay fair to our regular members and respectful to our venue partners, priority is given to members who attend events consistently.
New members may be moved from “Going” to “Waitlist” until they clearly confirm their attendance.
### 💡 Share Your Ideas & Become a Host
We love when members bring new ideas and energy into the group!
If you have an idea for an event and would like to host, feel free to DM me, and I’ll share our hosting guidelines.
Hosting is a privilege earned through consistent involvement. We do not “cold-assign” hosting duties to new members.
To be considered as a host, we look for the following:
- Regular attendance at any type of our events for at least 3 months
- Understanding of our mission and group development goals
- Acceptance of and alignment with our values
- Strong people & communication skills and the ability to build trust within the community
- Organizational skills — managing RSVPs, communicating with venues, and ensuring everyone feels welcomed
- A clear intention to host events one-time or on a regular basis
- Clear event planning — including time, location, number of guests, and other details
All events must be submitted to a group leader for approval. Once approved, we publish them together, and you can grow and develop as a host within the community.
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This group grows not because of numbers, but because of the people who show up with openness, curiosity, and respect.
If this resonates with you — welcome.
We’re looking forward to meeting you at one of our events!
Upcoming events
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Fine Dining&Conversation in Rustic House Oyster Bar & Grill, Los Altos.
Rustic House Oyster Bar and Grill, Turn, 295 Main Street, Los Altos, ca, USWe’re continuing our culinary adventures around the area, and this Friday we invite you to join us for dinner at Rustic House Oyster Bar & Grill in Los Altos.
Rustic House Oyster Bar & Grill is a relaxed and inviting seafood-forward restaurant featuring fresh oysters, seasonal grill dishes, artisan pizzas, tacos, sandwiches, and more. The atmosphere is casual yet lively — perfect for a cozy, social evening with friends. The bar offers signature cocktails and drinks to pair with your meal, making it a wonderful spot to relax, connect, and enjoy great company. (rustichouselosaltos.com)
As always, what matters most to us is good mood, meaningful conversations, and enjoyable company — so come ready to relax, connect, and share a great meal together.***
### Important RSVP guidelines for this dinner:
If you RSVP “Yes”, please make sure you attend.
No-shows without prior notice may be excluded from future dinners.
If we ask you to reconfirm your attendance closer to the date, please do so — do not rely on your initial RSVP.
Guests who do not reconfirm may be moved to “Not Going” to free up spots for people on the waitlist.***
### Friday Dinner Policies (apply to all Friday dinners):
Our Friday dinners are the heart of this group. Because these events require restaurant reservations and fixed seating, confirmed RSVPs are mandatory.
- No walk-ins or crashers: if you are on the waitlist or do not have a Confirmed status, please do not come to the venue.
- Consequences: walk-ins or crashers will be removed from the group.
- Late arrivals: we understand traffic happens, but please do not arrive more than 20 minutes late.
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### Why this matters:
Showing up without an RSVP puts our relationship with local venues at risk and creates an unfair experience for those who successfully secured a spot.
Action required:
Please keep your RSVP updated. If you can no longer attend, change your status to Not Going at least 24 hours in advance so someone from the waitlist can join.
You’re welcome to check out Rustic House Oyster Bar & Grill’s menu online before confirming. (rustichouselosaltos.com)
We truly value everyone’s time and effort and want these dinners to remain respectful, smooth, and enjoyable for all.
Looking forward to a lovely evening together ✨19 attendees
Past events
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