
What we’re about
Who we are: We are a fun, inclusive group, rediscovering who we are as middle-aged adults (40 and up), getting out of the house and challenging ourselves to make friends and try new activities. Regardless of your relationship status, you are welcome to come and find connection and friendship with others. This group is for those who find themselves at a crossroads in life—kids moving out of the nest, loss of spouse, or any other reason that leads you to want to find new connections and get outside your comfort zone. We will plan a variety of fun social activities but would also like to focus on giving back to our community with volunteer activities. If you have ideas for activities or volunteer opportunities, please message the group leader or an event organizer.
Who should join: Middle-aged adults (40+) who do not have kids or whose kids are now (mostly) independent AND adults with or without a partner who are looking to extend their social circle and participate in fun, in-person activities with other adults. We expect everyone to treat all group members with respect and compassion, refraining from judgmental comments or discussions (no political, religious, philosophical, etc. debates—there are other local meetup groups for them).
Activity Disclaimer: Please note that this group is focused for those who are middle-aged adults. Please don't expect our activities to accommodate anyone under age 21 (though we may occasionally have such events).
Additional information: we ask that you please have a meetup profile picture that is clear on your face so we know who to be looking for when you join us at events. Thank you! Usually events will be open to RSVP until the event time and for an unlimited number. Occasionally, we will limit number of attendees or close RSVPs early based on event details (need for reservations, location limit, etc.) We ask that you RSVP for anything that interests you — and even bring guests if you would like — but that you please change your RSVP status if you are unable to attend. We also ask that everyone follow any specific guidelines a group leader sets forth in the description of each event (e.g. guest limit, if a certain event is or is not dog or younger child appropriate, etc.) Habitual RSVPers who no-show and anyone not following respectful guidelines outlined here or by group leaders may be removed from the group at leadership discretion.
Art credit: The group cover art is an original watercolor made specifically for this group by JBParsons.
Upcoming events
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AlphaBites 2026 (B) - Bangkok Thai
Bangkok Thai Restaurant, 700 Sleater Kinney Rd SE Ste C2, Lacey, WA, USBangkok Thai Restaurant is a well-known, family-owned Thai restaurant with over 15 years of experience providing not only authentic Thai food, but also Chinese selections that are optionally gluten-free.
🍽️ Menu: https://bangkokthailacey.com/menu
📅 Date: Saturday
🕕 Time: 6 p.m.
📍 Location: Bangkok Thai
Seating is limited and we may not be able to sit together.
❤️ The app has been set to allow you to bring 1 guest for this event.
AlphaBites 2026 isn’t just about eating out—it's about discovering hidden gems, local favorites, and exciting new venues right in our area. Our group will visit different food and drink establishments whose name starts with a different letter of the alphabet. From A to Z, no letter is left behind (well maybe Q since Quality Burrito is sadly gone)! Please let your leadership team members/event hosts know of suggestions of your favorite local spots as we wind our way through the AlphaBites
A - Anthony's HomePort 1/5
B - Bangkok Thai 1/10 - recommended by Lynda8 attendees
Trivia - BCP West Oly
Brewery City Pizza, 2705 Limited Lane North West, Olympia, WA, USWe really enjoy the vibe and trivia host at BCP so we’re keeping it in our rotation! This trivia is fun, but can be difficult. Only a few members are ultra competitive— host if us are there to, have fun and laugh. Most every newbie nervous about knowing any answers have helped us out with at least one random factoid they know the answer to so don’t be shy—join us!
Trivia starts at 6:30 p.m. Happy hour ends at 6 p.m. so come early (an Empty Nesters event host will usually try to be there by about 5:30) to get your orders in and eat before trivia starts.
BCP uses the King Pub Trivia app so make sure to have your phone or tablet charged and ready to go to follow along. BCP Staff vote on the best team name so bring your most clever ideas to impress 20-year olds!
When: Tuesday, trivia starts at 6:30, come early to order, socialize, and eat
Where: Brewery City Pizza, 2705 Limited Ln, Olympia
(we typically take 2 tables along the long side wall)
Cost; Trivia is free to play for paying customers
https://www.brewerycitypizza.com/menu
❤️ The event may be set to allow you to bring guests.
*NOTE: Winnings from all team events may be placed into a free raffle to be given away at events like the End of Summer Bash and/or our Ugly Sweater/White Elephant Exchange. Also, team prizes may be donated to charity as a way of "giving back" to our community.*10 attendees
Bunco - Sip and Roll
Starbucks, 1110 College St SE, Lacey, WA, USYou're invited to a co-hosted Bunco dice game at Starbucks. Grab your favorite seasonal drink and join us for a casual game night full of luck, prizes, and good company. No bunco experience is necessary—it's easy to learn, and the partners change every round! (if we don't have enough people to play Bunco we may play a different game)
🔮 Who: Join the fun, and bring your friends!
This event a co-hosted with the Starbucks Meetup Group.
📅 Date: Third Friday each month
🕕 Time: 6:00 p.m. start (arrive early to sign-in & order)
📋Sign-in: Game play numbers may be limited, arrive early to sign-in.
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🎉 What: Win Prizes! Have Fun! More prizes!
🎁 Prizes: If you'd like to donate, wrapped gifts are welcomed for the prize pile!
📍 Location: Starbucks · 1110 College St SE, Lacey, WA 98503
💸No cover charge or admission - but must be a paying customer to hang out at Starbucks.
🍽️ Starbucks favorites - the full menu is available. Hot and cold beverages, breakfast and lunch sandwiches, and a variety of snacks.
❤️ The app has been set to allow you to bring 2 guests for this event.16 attendees
BANGO - Indian Summer (LED Jacket Edition)
Indian Summer Golf & Country Club, 5900 Troon LN SE, Olympia, AA, USThe group had a blast at the last event... it's a dance party - glow stick - karaoke - sing along - friendly competition all in one! Join us for "BANGO" Music Bingo Night. Free to play for customers at this 21 plus event hosted at Indian Summer Golf & Country Club
🔮 Theme: LED Jacket Night
📅 Date: Saturday
🕕 Time: 7 p.m. start
The reservation is for 6 P.M., under Kira's name
📍 Location: Indian Summer Golf & Country Club
🎁 Prizes to win including a $40 Gift Certificate for Blackout!!
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Past events
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