What we’re about
Are you looking for new friends with similar values and world views? Hoping to build your LGBTQIA+ community in Connecticut? Then this is the group for you.
Primarily for folks in their 20's and 30's, Building the Rainbow is open to members of any gender, sexuality, and background. We hope to cultivate genuine, supportive friendships with other queer folks through monthly activities, from book crawls to arts and crafts nights and more. Events will take place across Connecticut and highlight small businesses and public spaces that make our state feel like home.
We can't wait to meet you!
Upcoming events
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Stitch & Bitch
Rhye and Henry’s House, RSVP to Find Out Street,, New Britain, CT, USABOUT: Bring whatever you’re stitching and whatever you need to bitch about. We welcome crochet, knitting, embroidery, cross stitch, leather working, really anything you’re making with your hands and/or fiber. Rhye and Henry have lots of yarn and embroidery stuff to share as well if you want to come and try something out!
Stitching will take place in the living room, which has comfy seating and floor space, as well as a dining room table if you need a table to work at. (There are also a few fold out table trays for living room.)
Please make sure you have joined our Discord server and checked in with #stitch-and-bitch for more details.
GENERAL INFORMATION:
- CHILDREN: Children are not allowed at this event.
- ANIMALS: Animals are not allowed at this event. Rhye and Henry have an old lady baby doggy who is a bit crotchety about people being in her home, so if you are allergic or don't like dogs, this is not a good event for you.
- ACCESSIBILITY: Three steps to get into house, bathroom on first floor. Can provide KN95 masks for folks who chose to mask, will also have an air purifier running. Please at least be up to date with 2024 COVID booster.
- FOOD: Hosts will provide light snacks like charcuterie and probably a dessert. You’re welcome to bring snacks and crafts to share!
- SUBSTANCES: Since this is a privately-hosted event, cannabis can be used with the discretion of the host. There is a designated indoor 420 area for flower, and vapes ok in house. No alcohol is permitted.
- PARKING: Free street parking. Can park in driveway if needed for accessibility.
NOTE: No longer need to RSVP on Partiful!
7 attendees
Pizza Night at Bar
BAR, 254 Crown St, New Haven, CT, USABOUT: Join New Haven native and beloved Building the Rainbow member Fia for dinner at Bar, a popular pizza spot with unique toppings like mashed potatoes.
Please RSVP as soon as possible so we can make a reservation accordingly. You should also be sure to join our Discord server and check in with the #pizza-night-at-bar-november-13 channel for more details.
GENERAL INFORMATION:
- CHILDREN: This is an adults-only event.
- ANIMALS: No pets are allowed at this event.
- ACCESSIBILITY: No known mobility restrictions for getting into the restaurant. Please be aware that the seats are picnic table-style with no back support. This is a buzzy establishment, so expect dim lights and some noise from surrounding tables, depending on how busy the restaurant is that night. We suggest bringing earplugs if you are sensitive to noise.
- FOOD: We will be ordering pizzas to share. Gluten-free and dairy-free options unknown. Host Fia will put down her credit card and folks can pay her back for their portion with Venmo, Zelle, or cash. Expect to spend around $30 per person, or less.
- SUBSTANCES: As always, this is a substance-free event to support our friends in recovery. Please do not plan on purchasing alcoholic beverages of any kind or consuming cannabis in any form. Thanks for understanding!
- PARKING: College Street Garage (paid) is less than a block away. There is on-street meter parking, but it can be difficult to snag a spot. We suggest carpooling if possible. Can also arrange pickups from New Haven train stations.
19 attendees
Snacks & Cinema
Rey & Rowen's House, RSVP to Find Out, Bloomfield, CT, USABOUT: Join Rey and Rowen at their new apartment complex for Snacks & Cinema, where we'll gather to watch a movie, relax, and enjoy some treats. Participants will vote on which movie to watch, so please be sure to join our Discord server and check in with #movie-night-november-14 to have your say!
GENERAL INFORMATION:
- CHILDREN: Children may be allowed at the event depending on age and temperament. Please reach out to host Rey to discuss.
- ANIMALS: No pets are allowed at this event.
- ACCESSIBILITY: There is some handicap parking on a first-come, first-serve basis. The parking lot has ramps and the media room is on the first floor of the building just off the main lobby. There are restrooms near the main lobby area.
- FOOD: Please bring a snack, candy, or non-alcoholic beverage to share.
- INTRODUCTIONS: Because this is taking place at Rey and Rowen's home, we would like to meet folks at least once before in person before they attend this event. If you've gone to a Building the Rainbow event before, you're all set! If you haven't, please plan on attending an event before Saturday, 11/8 or reach out to Abby or Rey directly to find a few minutes to connect.
- SUBSTANCES: As always, this is a substance-free event to support our friends in recovery. Please do not bring alcoholic beverages of any kind or cannabis in any form. Thanks for understanding!
6 attendees
Wicked Queer: Part 1
Em's House, Hope Street, Stamford, CT, USABOUT: A wickedly talented chance to meet up and watch "Wicked" Part 1 before the second movie is released. Cosplay or themed outfits encouraged! This event will take place at the home of Building the Rainbow member Em L., who lives in Stamford (exact address to be provided to attendees the day before the event).
We encourage those attending this event to join us in theaters after "Wicked: For Good" is released. Wicked Queer: Part 2 will take place in Norwalk on Sunday, November 30.
Please make sure you have joined our Discord server to keep an eye on our #wicked-queer channel for more details.
GENERAL INFORMATION:
- CHILDREN: While a family-friendly movie, we ask that this event is adults-only.
- ANIMALS: No pets are allowed at this event.
- ACCESSIBILITY: There are 16 steps up from the front door to the living area. Subtitles will be enabled for the movie.
- FOOD: Snacks and soft drinks will be provided, but feel free to bring along your favorite movie snacks!
- INTRODUCTIONS: Because this is taking place at Em L.'s home, we would like to meet folks at least once before in person before they attend this event. If you've met Em at a Building the Rainbow event before, you're all set! If you haven't, please plan on attending an event by Saturday, 11/8.
- SUBSTANCES: As always, this is a substance-free event to support our friends in recovery. Please do not bring alcoholic beverages of any kind or cannabis in any form. Thanks for understanding!
9 attendees
Past events
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