About us
New friends, good vibes, zero pressure.
Welcome to The 30/40 Social club— where making friends in your 30s and 40s doesn’t feel like a networking event or a school drop-off line.
We're a laid-back, good-humored crew of men and women who know that adulting is better with company. Whether you're new to town, a local, over the club scene, or just tired of saying “we should hang out sometime” and never actually doing it — this group is your people. Expect casual meetups with real conversation: brunches that may turn into afternoon strolls, trivia nights where no one cares who wins, cozy coffee hangouts, game nights with snacks, and maybe even a group escape room attempt (because nothing says “friendship” like arguing over clues with strangers-turned-besties).
No awkward icebreakers. No weird vibes. Just genuine folks looking for genuine connection.
Come as you are, leave with new stories — and maybe even a few new favorite people.
This group is a friendly space for adults aged 30–49 from all walks of life. We value kindness, respect, and good conversation. To keep this a positive and inclusive community, we have a zero-tolerance policy for bullying or harassment. Let’s treat each other with the respect we all deserve and enjoy connecting as adults.
Upcoming events
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🏆🍺 Bar Games Tournament - Super Social, Guaranteed Fun, Drinking Is Optional
Lucky Spartan, 1001 W Cass St, Tampa, FL, USNOTE: There will be 40+ people there across 10+ teams. This Meetup is to help spread the word, my "guest" count are actual registered users from outside Meetup.
Your To-Do List:
- Read this event description
- ✅ REGISTER ($25, required) (spots will fill up)
- FB Event: RSVP & Share or invite friends (optional)
This is a fun filled day where teams will compete in an alcohol inspired tournament! Expect a lucky afternoon full of clever bar games! Come dressed to impress or in team theme! (solo outfit or group theme prizes up for grabs)! ☘️
Details
- Teams of 4 will go head-to-head in a tournament bracket for 1st place!
- Create a team or sign up as a free agent & we'll get you on a team!
- $25 pert person
- Check in at 12pm sharp!
- Drinking is optional; it's at a bar so you can also order whatever kind of food or drink you want and sip on it while playing the games.
Included in your registration:
- FREE Parking
- Drink Ticket
- Swag & Giveaways
- Music
- Food & Drink Specials
- A great time!
- Prizes include a $25 Visa gift card per player, medals, and a prize bag!
Stick around after the games wrap — the party doesn’t stop at 5!
Some games may include, but not limited to:
- BEER PONG
- FLIP CUP
- CIVIL WAR
- CHOP STICKS
- CORN HOLE
- PONG-TAC-TOE
- OREO CHALLENGE
- TOWER OF TERROR
- SCAVENGER HUNT
**REMINDER: YOU DO NOT HAVE TO DRINK ALCOHOL TO PARTICIPATE IN THESE GAMES**
We can't wait to have a fun-filled afternoon with you all!
Learn more about FAMLeauge
Meetup Host:
I (Jimmy) have competed in two prior tournaments and also play dodgeball, pickleball, and kickball with this group. FAMLeague is an amazing community and everyone is welcome. Come on out and hang with us! Look forward to seeing you there! *Note: I hope to attend but have a potential conflict and may arrive late or after it ends. Either way, you will be welcomed and have a super fun time! (but I hope to be there)51 attendees
😃 Adult Field Day - Sack race, tug of war, egg & spoon, and many more!
Apex Performance, Apex Performance, Cheri Court, Tampa, FL, USI came across this event online and it sounds like a great time! Details below are from the organizer. Grab yourself a ticket and let's come together for a day of nostalgic fun and friendly competition!
Your To-Do List:
- Purchase Ticket ($12.51 all-in)
- RSVP to this Meetup
- [Optional] RSVP on Facebook Event and invite friends
Event Details:
Get ready to unleash your inner kid with fun games, a live DJ, giveaways & more!Join us for a day packed with fun, games, and friendly competition. Whether you’re team relay races or tug-of-war, there’s something for everyone. Grab your friends, sister, cousin, whoever and let's have a good time! This is an indoor turf space so we are on rain or shine !! Light refreshments provided, Food will be available for purchase.
## FAQs
What type of games will be played?
Sack race, tug of war, egg and spoon and many more as well as some tabletop games.Where can we park?
You can park in the apex parking lot or in the lot right across from it.Can I buy a ticket at the door?
Tickets must be purchased in advance to ensure we have enough space for everyone.What type of music will be played?
Think family reunion/cookout music!!Will there be food?
There will be food available for purchase!Can I come if I don’t want to participate in games?
If you don’t or can’t participate in physical activities. Still come out and vibe with us, meet new people, connect and build community!3 attendees
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